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Adoption Myths and Realities
Discover the truth behind the common misconceptions surrounding adoption in Adoption Myths and Realities: Dispelling the Top 5 Misconceptions. This blog unpacks widespread myths—from the oversimplified idea of “just adopt” to assumptions about the roles of birth parents—revealing the complex legal, emotional, and logistical journey that adoption truly is. By shedding light on these realities, the post aims to foster a deeper, more compassionate understanding of adoptive family building.
Creating a World Where Every Adoptee Thrives: The Identity Mission
At Identity, we are on a mission to ensure that every adoptive family thrives. We envision a world where adoptees feel truly seen, heard, and valued—where their full identity and experience are celebrated within their families and communities.
A Legacy of Hope: Alec Ingold’s Impact On and Off the Field
Discover the inspiring journey of Alec Ingold—a Miami Dolphins standout whose life as an adoptee has fueled his passion for community empowerment and advocacy. From overcoming early challenges to emerging as a leader on and off the field, Alec's story is a powerful reminder that family is built on love, resilience, and the courage to transform adversity into opportunity.
Embracing Identity: Angela Tucker’s Journey Through Transracial Adoption
This blog celebrates Angela Tucker, a nationally recognized advocate for transracial adoption, whose authentic storytelling and advocacy are reshaping the adoption conversation. Raised as a Black adoptee in a predominantly white family, her journey is a powerful testament to resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of amplifying adoptee voices. Angela’s work continues to empower and inspire others.
Post-Adoption Challenges and Support
Adoption is a profound journey that blends the diverse threads of resilience, hope, and dedication into a unified family narrative. At its heart, it’s far more than just legal processes or paperwork—it’s the forging of lifelong bonds built on trust, understanding, and unwavering care. Each small step we take together fosters a stronger, more vibrant sense of belonging, reminding us that love—and family—knows no single origin story.
Rhonda M. Roorda: A Trailblazer in Transracial Adoption Advocacy
Discover the inspiring journey of Rhonda M. Roorda, a pioneering advocate in transracial adoption, in our latest blog post. At Identity Learning, we explore how her personal experiences and groundbreaking research continue to reshape conversations about family, identity, and belonging, empowering communities to embrace diversity and foster empathy.
From Adoptees to Advocates: Changing the Narrative on Family and Identity
This Black History Month, we’re shining a spotlight on four African American adoptees—each one a testament to the power of love, identity, and unshakable resilience. At Identity, we believe these stories have the power to redefine how we view family, belonging, and our shared history. Over the next four weeks, you’ll meet trailblazers who are challenging us all to embrace every facet of our identities. From bestselling authors to pioneering educators, each is making waves—and now you’ll find out how and why.
Grief and Loss in the Infertility Journey
Infertility can bring a profound sense of loss—for the child you long for, the future you envisioned, and the path to parenthood you assumed you’d take. These unfulfilled hopes often trigger complex layers of grief that affect self-image, relationships, and emotional well-being. Yet, as Dr. Anna Koehle reminds us, acknowledging these feelings is the first step to healing. By giving yourself permission to grieve, seeking support, and remaining open to new possibilities—whether through adoption, surrogacy, or a reimagined future—you can find renewed hope and purpose in the midst of heartache.
Understanding Adoption Readiness
Are you considering adoption and looking for real, heartfelt guidance on what it truly means to be ready? This inviting resource delves into the emotional, relational, and financial aspects that shape every adoptive parent’s journey.
Navigating Infertility and Transitioning to Adoption
Focusing on the emotional toll of infertility and the transformative journey toward adoption, the piece illuminates various types of adoption and features insights from experts like Dr. Anna Koehle.
Your Ultimate Guide to Considering Adoption: Step-by-Step Instructions
Adoption can be a beautiful way to build your family. But let’s face it—figuring out how to start, what to do, and how much it will cost can feel overwhelming. Don’t worry! We’re breaking the process into 10 clear steps and giving you actionable advice along the way.
Adoptees and the Real Mental Health Challenges They Face
Adoption often brings a unique blend of loss, trauma, and hope. While many adoptees have strong and supportive families, they might still face mental health challenges tied to early separation from their birth parents.
The Hidden Trauma of Adoption: Navigating Life’s Roller Coaster
Adoption is often celebrated as an act of love, offering children a chance for a stable, nurturing home. Yet, behind the joyful narratives lies a complex web of emotions, challenges, and trauma that families and adoptees must navigate.
The Importance of Communication in an Adoptive Family
Communication is the lifeblood of any family, but for adoptive families, especially those navigating the complexities of transracial adoption, it is absolutely essential. Open, honest, and consistent dialogue fosters trust, understanding, and a sense of belonging, which are crucial for the healthy development of adopted children.
Navigating Adoption & Biological Relationships in Transracial Families
This heartfelt conversation highlights the complexities of adoption, the challenges of navigating racial identity, and the powerful bond that has kept them close through it all. Don’t miss this candid discussion that offers deep insights into the lived experiences of adoptees and their families.
What They Don't Tell You – Unveiling the Complex Journey of Adoption
Adoption is often depicted as a beautiful and heartwarming process, filled with love and security. However, adoption is more than that. Beneath the surface of adoption lies rarely discussed topics--the emotional turmoil and challenges faced by both adoptee and adoptive parents.
From Infertility to Parenthood: Embracing the Realities of Adoption
Families who have experienced infertility turn to adoption as their way to start their own family. However, there are also emotional challenges when adopting as well.
Code Switching: Navigating Through Two Cultures
Code-Switching is seen to show up in transracial adoption situations, especially with an adoptee trying to find their place within their own culture.
GOTCHA: The Ups, Downs, Emotions, and Controversy of Adoption Days
In the world of adoption, there are moments that stand out for the adoptive family. One significant moment that stands out between the adoptive parent and adoptive child is the very first day that they can call each other family.
Understanding Attachment: A Family's Journey Through Adoption
For many adoptees and their families, navigating these emotional dynamics requires reflection, open communication, and deep understanding; and one of those deep understandings? It's attachment issues.